| Everyone
(especially us females) dream of having a wedding
that will be successful and everything we'd hope it
will be. We start building this dream right from the
first time we watched Cinderella, all through high
school, college till the day we are proposed to. But
as the day transforms from being a "someday"
to an actual date on the calendar, we soon realise
that "birthing" dreams can really be tough.
An
even tougher thing is fitting your wedding planning
activities between your work schedules (can be really
difficult). Below are some tips that can help you
ensure that all aspects of your life are running
smoothly during the wedding planning period.
Treat
the planning as a Project
Treat your wedding planning as a project. Get a
planning notebook or simply a calendar where you
can record when different task/activities should
be performed and by whom. Keep track of these tasks
and watch out for time delays. Take your notebook
to work with you, so you may jot down any ideas
that may come to you during the day and whom can
perform the task. List and prioritize the various
wedding elements based on our checklist. Figure
out what is more important to you. Is it the reception,
or your wedding gown? Is a platinum ring a must
have? Also, determine those tasks you must handle
yourself. For those tasks that you need not do yourself,
you can assign to your reliable family members or
friend. People will always ask, ‘what can
we do for you? Yes, give them something to do for
you. Finally, If you have Microsoft project at home,
please use it! Treating the wedding preparation
as a project, this ensures that all aspects are
covered.
Maximise
your free time
Maximise your lunch breaks. Make those phone calls
during your lunch break. Use the email when possible
to minimize phone costs. Use our Directory Listing
to locate wedding services vendors in your locality.
Use the internet and our wedding mall section to
gets ideas for your wedding event. You can quickly
visit your caterer or décor professional
during your break or on your way home from work.
Let people around you know that you are making preparation
for your wedding; hence you will not get assigned
extra duties that take up your spare time. While
commuting to and from work, you can take out your
planning notebook and update it.
Is
it all getting to you?
If you are feel there is too much to do, you might
require more help. Get that cousin of yours who
is on break from the university, or your best friend
who runs her own business to take some load off
you. Can you afford a wedding planner within your
budget? If so get one!
Remember,
to take it easy too, there is life after the wedding
event. Your marriage to someone you love is far
more important than the wedding event no matter
how glamorous it may turn out to be!
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